I wonder what these boys do when they are with their guy gang? Me being a girl who has got along more with guys, feel completely out of the place when these men bond. Take for example, Ankit, Vishal, Himan and Sanket where having a night out and I being close to them still was a complete stranger and an outsider for them. Another example, Rushab, I met him when he was celebrating his birthday yesterday. Same feeling of a stranger from all his friends (his friends coz I met them for the first time). Even if he has a crush on you, girls, remember, he will always give priority to his guy friends. However close you may be to him, it doesn’t matter, he will never ever share those things with you.
Yesterday, I spent the whole day with my guy friends, strolling around in South Mumbai, even though I was tired of walking and bored and felt out of the place, I was completely enjoying observing them. Himan was grilling Ankit for not sharing secrets. Himan was literally spying on him. Something what close girl friends do, I thought! Then, shopping together for their shorts, boxers, formal shirts, pants, shoes, rugby ball, what not! Eating out, but Ankit making sure Himan eats less salt (due to his health). Again, Caring and Sharing is very much a part of these friends. The way these guys bonded reminded me of Sholay – Jay and Veeru. Pulling each others leg, caring each other, ensuring each other cut nails, giving a make over, oh…this was a complete surprise to me. Trust me, yesterday, I completely miss my girl friends that are not in India for a bit.
Are you wondering, why m I telling you all this??? Simple. So, that you don’t fight with your boy friend, and say something like “Either me or them. Choose” He wont even lie to you, he will definitely say “Honey, they have been there with me before you were there, I can’t, definitely leave them! Period.” All you girls please keep this in mind, guys will be guys!
